“Always be eager to practice hospitality.” Romans 12:13

I used to think hospitality was just for the special people – the ones who appear to always have it all together. And I was certainly not one of them! The thought of having people in my home stressed me out. Hosting others was like a grand production of sorts, where everything had to be orchestrated perfectly. It was all too overwhelming, so I soon quit after a few attempts and reasoned hospitality was not my gift!

But in recent years, God has placed people in my life who practice hospitality well. They do it with ease. And they have helped change my perspective, showing me I need to view this command given to us in Romans through a different lens. Below are a few ideas that helped shift my thinking and restart practicing hospitality.

• Hospitality is not a production, rather it’s a mindset that focuses on others and not on executing a perfect event. Hospitality can be practiced not only with invited guests to your home but also with the family who live with you.
• Hospitality is not about creating a five-star experience. Keep it simple. Remember the adage less is more? Sometimes more can make others feel uncomfortable.
• Hospitality starts by creating a home that’s a refreshing place to be. It’s intentionally creating an orderly space where our souls can breathe, and everyone looks forward to coming because they feel loved, safe, and accepted.
• Hospitality is preparing and having good food. Food is ministry, especially for men and boys. Having a well-stocked pantry and refrigerator is helpful.

Ellen Stevens, one of the women who helped reshape my thinking, is our speaker for May’s luncheon. She’ll share how hospitality can be a tool to love others well and offer specific suggestions and practical steps we can take to incorporate this act of hospitality into our lives.

From a list of

• the must-have items needed in our pantry
• to creative ideas for making guests feel welcome,

you will leave encouraged and empowered.

Personally, my faith walk soared, because ONE woman, my neighbor, took time to invite me into her home. She shared her love (and coffee!) and discipled me, encouraging my walk with Jesus.

I’m not sure where I’d be were it not for Suzi’s willingness to extend hospitality to her neighbor.

The world is not a kind place. Hospitality is a beautiful way to offer a kind, thoughtful gesture that might go a long way in touching another’s heart.

You’ll never know who you may impact when practicing hospitality.