When was the last time you and your husband went on a date? In the busyness of everyday life, setting aside time to nurture that relationship is often the first thing to go – At least it is for me.

But last night, my husband and I had a much needed date night. For us, date night is a time to talk about the things that we normally don’t talk about; share our heart; share our goals and a time to share our dreams. It’s a time of great encouragement. Last night, we went to one restaurant for an appetizer and another for a lite dinner. (We both are probably A.D.D. The change of scenery is fun to us!)

We are especially blessed to have both of our families living in the city we live. Last night, my Mom was our hero. I praise Jesus for her. She is such a blessing to my sister and I. Her offers to help always seem to come at just the right time.

But what if funds are tight? And if you have small kids at home and can’t afford a sitter?

Have date night at home. Plan a special meal (one that your husband likes ensures a great start); either put the kids to bed early or start a movie with popcorn in another room – with an immediate bed time afterward. COMMAND them NOT to interrupt unless someone is sick or bleeding. The penalty for interruption – immediately to their room for the night.

A dear friend of mine used to make this a priority when her boys were growing up. After paying a babysitter, they didn’t have much money, so they’d go to McDonald’s for date night. These were not exactly the most romantic dinners, but in retrospect, she recalls those memories as some of the sweetest during that period of her life.

Date night is a night for reconnection. Make plans now for a date night. Surprise your husband with it – he’ll be thrilled! Pray ahead of time for rich and full conversation. Pray for openness between each other. Pray that God will pour out His favor and blessing during this special time.

So when was your last date night? After last night, I know that I need to make it more of a priority. I’m missing out on a blessing if I don’t.